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January
2006
"The Vols trail by
two
and they've got one last shot. Trueblood comes off a
screen...takes the three-pointer-r-r-r...HE MADE IT! Oh
my!!!"
The dreams of my youth
centered around sports and needless to say, I dreamed big.
Unfortunately, I didn't really
know the difference between Dreams and Goals. Actually, I
never played basketball in my youth. My four varsity letters
associated with hoops were for taping ankles, keeping stats
and handing out water bottles. I dreamed of sports, but
dreams never got me in the game much less hitting the game
winning shot.
Interestingly enough, I
blame Rick Pitino. It was only when I read his best-selling
book, Success is a Choice, that I learned the
difference between Dreams and Goals. I blame Coach Pitino
because if he had written that book 10-years earlier, it
might have inspired me to work my tail off and create some
actual on-court memories rather than fictitious fantasy!
As Coach Pitino stated in
his book, Dreams are where you want to be and Goals are how
you get there. I've since learned the distinction. His ideas
regarding realistic versus unrealistic goals and the hard
work needed to accomplish your goals was greatly motivating
to me. To his inspirations I want to add to just few
thoughts.
Dreaming is great.
However, if there is no plan in place as to how that Dream
is to be accomplished, it is destined to forever
be a prisoner of fantasy and ultimately left unrealized. Goals help
move that Dream toward reality, if only one step at a time.
A Goal is a blueprint for your success. Every goal
has three components: 1-What; 2-Why and 3-How.
What. First you
must define what exactly you want to accomplish.
For instance, your goal may involve a dream vacation, but if
you can't decide on a destination, you end up vacationing in your
driveway. In other words, if you want that vacation,
first you need a destination. You need a dream. Be as specific as
possible and quantify this aspect of your goal if possible.
Why. Now, with a
well-define objective just waiting to be reached, the next
step is to identify 'why' you want to achieve this goal.
What value will the accomplishment mean to your life? What
will it mean to your relationships with colleagues, family
and friends? How will it enrich your life? Will the success
help you realize financial goals? The bottom line is simple.
The accomplishment of any worthwhile goal requires hard
work. If you have a well-defined goal, it is vital to know
what motivation exists for you to go after it. This "Why" will
instill motivation that will help you persist and persevere
when the going gets tough. The "Why" will give you the
sticktoitiveness to stay with the plan.
How. Finally, with
a specific goal in mind and the worthiness of the cause
established, you are ready to create a plan of
accomplishment. Ask yourself, "How am I going to get this
done? What will it take for me to reach this goal?" Write
down a step-by-step game plan and review it often in order
to hold yourself accountable to persevering and realizing
your big dreams.
As for me, I still dream
big. While there are no
game-winning buzzer-beater's in my future, Coach Pitino's thoughts on Dreams and Goals did inspire me. His
thoughts on work ethic, deserving success, dreams and goals
prompted me to leave the corporate culture and start
BrandVision Marketing. Thanks Coach Pitino and Go Cards!
To buy a copy of Coach Pitino's book go to the Marketing
Connection.
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Matthew Scott Trueblood and BrandVision Marketing. 2005.
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